We mommas use whatever tools we have at our disposal, right? And if the testosterone coursing through the veins of our little boys can be harnessed for our convenience, we should go for it, right?
I sure do.
Recently I stumbled across a really easy (and oh-so-funny) tip to get my boys to help me with things like carrying laundry baskets, moving furniture, bringing in groceries, etc….without a moment of arguing. Here’s an example of how it works:
Me: Stephen, I need some help moving these boxes to the garage. [Long pause here while I appear to be re-assessing.] You know, never mind, I think these might be a little too heavy for you.
Stephen: [Popping up eagerly from the couch.] Too heavy? Those aren’t too heavy! Let me try!
Me: [Insert overly dramatic skepticism here.] Are you sure? There are a lot of them.
Stephen: Aw, that’s easy, Mom, I can do them all…
Presto. I get eager help from the boys, and they get an ego boost. Works for me–every time!
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That is so funny. I can see this working for my 5 year old. I love it!
LOL..I love how reverse psychology always works on them!
Have a nice Wednesday!!
Laura
That is too cute! Thanks for sharing and hosting!
Lol! I do this with my almost-3-year-old. 🙂 Today I was telling him what a strong boy he was when he was helping me. 😉 You should have seen his smiles! 😀
Thanks once again for hosting WFMW. You are so gracious, and I know I’m not the only one who appreciates it! 🙂
At our house, with toddlers, I steal from Bob the Builder, and ask my daughter, “Can you do it?” for the happy response of “Yes I can!” as she runs to put away whatever I’ve asked her too. Yep. 😀 Glad to know that sort of thing works as they get older too!
peace of Christ to you,
Jessica
Sounds like great child psychology to me. 🙂
That’s cute! Showing their best and their brawn for their mamma. That is sweet.
~Blessings,
Great idea on getting boys to help! maybe a modified version would help with hubby’s 🙂
Pam
Ah yes, I’ve done that. It works wonders on my four boys, from the youngest to even still the oldest (ages 3 & 12).
Brandy of The Building Brows
That’s how I got my kids (and now grandkids) to go to the potty when I needed them to go. I would say “we need to go to the potty before we leave, but just remember it’s my turn to go first”…it got them everytime. They always want to be first.
How funny!
I also wanted to say how much I appreciate your hosting WFMW! I love participating and learning all the great new tips!
Blessings,
~Mrs.B
Thanks, Shannon!
Oh, this is perfect…with 4 boys in the house, I suspect it will come in most handy! I’m thinking it might work with some of my girls, as well!
Great idea! Gotta love that reverse phsychology! Especially when it involves the male ego, no matter how young the male!
Too funny! I hope that works for us when Snuggle Bug gets older. 🙂
how funny, I will have to try that! I love WFMW by the way! I only found your site a coupl eof months ago, and I have read them every week since, though this is my first time posting. It took me forever to think of a good idea to post about! I hope to do so more often now.
Thanks and God bless!
You’re a master of psychology most definitely. When do you think they’re going to be onto you?
Oooh like it. Mine is up with photos of my BIG calendar.
I do it with my boys too – and to tell you the truth, with my husband too. Ego-stroking, it’s naturally in the male’s genes I guess! 😉
Clever! Very clever!
I wonder if this works for little girls too? I think I’ll give it a try! LOL!
Yours is a tip that has worked for me on many occassions! Play up their manhood and they are more than cooperative.
Darn it. I forgot to add (spiffy bandage) after my name.
Not quite enough sleep, I guess. Sorry about that.
I’m thrilled to know how to get bigger boys to move heavy items. I’ll store that away in my brain for future use. 🙂
wow, brilliant!
Amen, Sister! They might as well get use to it now, cause the girls will run with that ‘tactic’ when they get older!
great use of positive language!
That’s really funny. I had a trick to make the kids think cleaning was fun. They were really into video games, and I told them to pretend the spray bottle was a weapon, and the dirt was the enemy.
Trouble was, sometimes they’d make messes just to clean them up with their ‘weapons.’
I totally do this with my kids. Works for girls as well as boys, I’ve found. 🙂
Eva
Holy cow! 66 entries? Already? at 7 am????? Yikes! Please tell me ya’ll autopost or something …
Thanks for hosting WFMW… I learn SO MANY great tips from the women that know! Happy Wednesday!
That one made me laugh, but oh how true it is!! (I have four brothers, I should know.) Thanks, Shannon!
OH! I LOVE THAT!!! I have raised 3 boys and I think you are on to something. What a positive way to reinforce our kids and yet get them to do what we want with no arguing. You go girl!!
I’ve done that too! Works for Me!
heeeeeyyyyy my mom must have done that to me because I think I remember her thinking out loud that something might be “too hard” for me to do. lol!
Boys are wonderful creatures aren’t there? (husbands work the same way!!) [grin}
Thanks for hosting this!!
Great idea! I will be refining this over the next few weeks!
Blessings,
jen
Great tip! I often ask for them to help by saying, “I need someone with really big muscles.” Works every time! Thanks for hosting!
Oh my gosh, what I brilliant idea! I’m going to have to give this a try on my two macho boys.
Thanks so much.
That’s awesome! Does it work on husbands too?
Thank you for hosting, Shannon! I finally jumped into this “most excellent adventure” you have every week! 🙂
Oh yeah. That’s helped me in many ways, not just physical. The old “this might be too grown-up/hard/delicious/fun for you” trick is one of the great tools of motherhood (and wifehood). Is wifehood a word?
Ha! That’s a good idea!
So funny! I can see where this would work with my little boy. Maybe hubby too, worth a try!
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LOL shannon.. nice work
GP in Montana
I do the same thing! I’ve got 3 boys, and I’ve been known to look them up and down and ask “which one of you is the strongest?”. I might even feel their muscles.
Mama Says
Thanks for another WFMW!
Oh, it drove me crazy that my mom could get any male to do anything under the sun when I was a kid. As I got older, I suddenly realized that it’s a lot easier to bat my eyes and appeal to that male ego rather than change a tire! 🙂
I think you’re on the right track, Shannon!
Oh my, I have 4 boys I will have to remember this one and use it with abandon! 🙂
Thanks for the tip!!
I do this with my 3 year old…makes him feel STRONG. like. superman.
I can’t wait to try this strategy on Son 1. Never too young to be manipulated, I always say.
Looking forward to the car edition! Zoom-Zoom!
Sneaky!! I like it 🙂 Happy WFMW.
this is my first ever WFMW entry!! wa hoo!! probably someone has shared this before, but it sure did work for me. thanks!!
I like that idea! I know my 8 year old would REALLy respond to this. LOL Thanks
I’ll definetely have to try this on my sons.
I’ve actually tried something similar with my two-year-old, but it only worked a few times and then he decided he didn’t care. 🙂 Maybe when he’s older!
I LOVE it! That’s a great tip. Thanks for sharing.
Oh crud! I just messed up on the WFMW–can I delete it and try again?
Mothers of sons, take heed! I grew up with girls, so I didn’t know the value of this tactic until my son turned three. IT WORKS!
Note: May also be used on reluctant husbands — especially when you’re pregnant. *evil grin*
That’s great! 🙂 I do this with my kids all the time. Drama Queen just turned 4 and I’ve been saying… “Oh, but now that you are four I bet you can do that because you are SOOO big11” or “No, no, I don’t think you can do that…you’re not so big.” And they both work most of the time. Actually I can’t take credit because it’s hubby who started it and taught me how to do it. 😛
Oh yes, I use this on Fiddledaddy too.
This works great on husbands too. 🙂
It so does work on husbands too! Haha! Can’t wait to read everyone’s WFMW!
Love it! I’ve used that one before. 🙂
This would work for my little Bam-Bam (6), but not for my other son (he’s 9 and tries his best to avoid work at all costs). It’s so cute though!
I finally thought of something to join in on WFMW with, yaayyy!
This does work!
I like to encourage my son to help this way, too.
~ Christina
OK, the ‘this box is too heavy for you’ isn’t working with my three girls. They just shrug their feminine shoulders and say, “yeah, Mom, you’re right”.
OK, the ‘this box is too heavy for you’ isn’t working with my three girls. They just shrug their feminine shoulders and say, “yeah, Mom, you’re right”.